New Jersey scene

Driving to New Jersey, yesterday, was a strange experience. Deja vu, I guess. At first I wasn’t sure I remembered how to get to the upper level of the bridge, then where to go in Fort Lee to buy the last few things Charna needed for camp. But it all fell into place easily. After all, I lived here eight years.

The bridge has a new coat of paint, and the scaffolding that clothed it for the last few years has been completely removed. I’m sorry I won’t see it at night when it is lit up. The renovations on my old apartment building are still not finished. It is almost a year since they sealed the windows on my terrace and began the work. I can’t imagine what they are doing for all of this time, but I can imagine what my neighbors must be saying screaming. I’m glad I didn’t attend the last coop annual meeting. That must have been a nightmare. And I am increasingly happy I got out of there.

Our drive to camp was uneventful. Charna was immediately embraced by her friends, everyone helped to unload her stuff from the car and with a hug and protestations of eternal gratitude, she was gone. I missed her when I got back to the apartment. Way too quiet.

Charna came back from Connecticut on the train. She’s become very sophisticated about train riding. This morning I will take her to camp in Port Jervis.

I spent the weekend looking at more images. On Saturday morning I went to the Museum of Sex to see Japanese erotic prints from the Edo era. In order to make the display seem more sexy and less historical the prints were displayed behind peep holes placed at varying heights requiring a lot of bending or standing on tiptoes. The exhibit was titled, "Peeping, Probing and Porn." Oh well.

Walking from the museum to catch a bus I passed a sign that said, "Vaults of Heaven." It was a fabulous exhibit of photographs of churches and cave churches in Turkey, presented by the World Monument Fund. The photos were probably 6 feet by 3 feet and presented sharp, clear details you would never be able to see if you visited the churches. They would be too high or too dark. I felt like I had gone from the ridiculous to the sublime.

Back to the Met on Sunday where I found out all about the Maya kings and gods. More sublime stuff.

A Feast of Images

Last night Charna and I went to see The Lion King. I wanted to take her for several years, but we could never plan enough ahead to get tickets. Now that we no longer live nearby I took advantage of the fact that we would be returning for one night together in the city. What an amazing spectacle that is. I’m sure I could watch it many times and never tire of just looking at the costumes. They are incredible. The whole thing is really over the top and I loved it.

After putting Charna on the train to Connecticut this afternoon, where she will spend the weekend with a friend, I went to the Brooklyn Museum to see the work of Aminah Brenda Lynn Robinson. This is another visual feast. When I was here back in May I saw some of this show, but being too tired to really appreciate it, I resolved to return. Today was the day, and I’m very glad I did it. I get more pleasure through my eyes than any of my other senses. Each time I see a show like this in a museum, see beautiful landscapes, flowers or clouds I am grateful for this gift.

New Look

My contact lenses now correct my vision to 20-20, not counting the extra edges on most things. More than ever, I need reading glasses in order to read anything smaller than 36 pt. type. I’ve been buying readers in the drug store, but I now need more than three times magnification and that’s hard to find. Also, I found a huge area (middle distance) where nothing worked. I spent enormous amounts of time putting on and taking off glasses. When I complained to my contact lens doctor she suggested variable focus lenses with the Transitions feature so I would not even need sunglasses.

I got the new glasses yesterday. I can’t believe how amazing they are. With a little head movement I can now see almost everything. I’m still having a little trouble with the computer, but I suspect that isn’t only the glasses. I could use a better computer desk. So I’ve become a permanent eyeglass wearer, for the first time in about 40 years. I just have to remember not to take them off. It’s gotten to be a bad habit.
This is what I looked like before glasses.
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Here I am with my new glasses.
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More Travel

I’m still thinking about Chicago, although I am already planning my next trip, New York on Thursday. One of the more entertaining things I found in Chicago was this "Chocolate Lounge." Chocolatelounge
They are all over the Chicago area. I have some doubts about their viability, but I’m probably wrong again. I’m the person who, when offered stock in Blockbuster early on, told the broker no one would want to watch movies on their TV set. Maybe I’ll be able to sit in a Pittsburgh lounge soon.

Charna and I will fly to New York on Thursday. She is going to visit a friend, then on to summer camp. I’ll visit with friends for a week then return to Pittsburgh, where I plan to stay put for a month or so.

The Wedding

I went to Chicago for the wedding of one of my cousin’s grandsons. It was a very special occasion, every detail was lovingly planned and executed. The wedding was held at the Patrick Haley Mansion in Joliet, Illinois, a marvelous background for a joyous event.
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The bride and groom with the groom’s Uncle Marty.


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Carol dancing with Paul, the groom’s 88 year old grand-
father.

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Me, dancing with my cousin, Arnie. I hope I can still do this when I am 88.

Memories

I can’t help but reminisce when I go back to Chicago. It is, after all, almost my entire past. One of the places I visited was Uncle Freddy’s Gallery, run by a cousin. She started the gallery several years ago, but this was my first opportunity to visit. She and her partner, Tom, wanted to know about my work as a photographer. I told them about the galleries and artists I worked with. I recalled this picture of Ed Paschke, just another job for me at the time, but looking at it now, I think it is quite good. Paschke

(© R. Karlin)
Time gives you a different perspective. Paschke’s work was always strong and a little violent; it was hard to reconcile his sweet public personality with this work. I think my portrait tells the story.

Home Again

I have only been away about 10 days, but it seems much longer because I’ve been to so many places and seen so many people.  I drove to Gettysburg with Robin, Steve and the kids on Saturday. On Monday I drove through a nasty storm to New York with Renee. Tuesday I went back to see my contact lens practitioner who made a change in my left lens. Reading the chart I now have 20-20 vision, sort of. At least I can almost make out the letters. She also made some recommendations for reading and middle distance glasses.

On Wednesday, Renee and I went to the new Chihuly show at the Botanical Garden in the Bronx. We spent the day looking at all of the Chihuly pieces and all of the wonderful trees and flowers. We also got to talk to Chihuly in person. Chihuly
Note the pink rock candy-like monolith in back of him. This is a new shape for Chihuly. I don’t think it is blown. It looks almost like chunks of glass that had been carved or broken. Stupidly, I did not think to ask him about it when I spoke to him.

One of our favorite pieces was an intricate shape that matched the orchid hanging above it. Chihuly2
What an immense amount of planning these shows must take.

We had a great day and bought tickets to go to a Chihuly evening on July 27. Of course, this means I am returning to New York before July 27.

Here is a picture of Renee admiring another Chihuly.
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On Thursday I flew to Chicago where I spent another week. With careful planning and dates for both lunch and dinner most days, I was able to visit with most of my friends and relatives. I had a great time; everyone was wonderful to me; the city looks wonderful and amazing; the traffic is horrible. This is a view of North Avenue beach from one of my friend’s windows.
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Gettysburg

Probably it was 1963 when we went to Gettysburg for the first time. We were driving from Chicago. I don’t remember the details: time of year, destination. I know it wasn’t tourist season; we were alone on the battlefield. There was no visitors center, no one to explain exactly what went on. You had to find that out for yourself. What I do remember, vividly: we got to the battlefield very early, and it was shrouded in fog. At first I was disappointed. I thought we wouldn’t be able to see anything because of the fog, and we didn’t have time to wait for it to lift. But, as we drove the monuments seemed to come alive in the fog, and we expected the battle to begin momentarily. It was an amazing experience that still moves me.

This trip to Gettysburg was another tourist experience, with lots of rain thrown in. Now I know all about the battles, but it would take years to really know all about it. Impendingstorm
My persistent feeling about all of these war memorials is that it would be good if we really did not celebrate war any more. I know that Gettysburg is not a celebration, but there is too much emphasis on heroism and not enough on the horrors these men and women lived through.

Regroup, again

It has been a very busy week. Renee came to visit on Friday. She was really coming for Eli’s graduation, but he didn’t march. We all went out to dinner on Saturday for our celebration.

Renee loves being a tourist and I am the tour guide. On Saturday we went to downtown Pittsburgh and looked at the old railroad station, which is gorgeous, the convention center Fountainatlawrenceconven
and art galleries in the

(Fountain at the David Lawrence Convention Center)

Penn-Liberty corridor. We had lunch at the Grand Concourse in Station Square, another gorgeous railroad terminal. It’s hard to understand how the railroads came to such grief when there were so many beautiful places associated with them. Tuesday I took Charna and Renee to Fallingwater. It’s worth seeing twice, or maybe three or four times.

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Charna and Renee at Fallingwater

Now I have to clean up all the messes I left in the house, do lots of laundry and pay bills. I am about to travel again. Steve’s family is having a reunion on Saturday and Sunday at Gettysburg. Steve will be our tour guide; he’s been studying the battle. I will return to New York with Renee and remain for three days. I have to go back and get my contacts checked. Next Thursday I will fly to Chicago, meet Carol there and spend a week seeing friends, relatives and going to a wedding.