Vegetarian Thanksgiving

I woke up this morning, in New York, trying to remember last night’s dinner. It was mostly non-traditional, or a mix of many traditions, although Ilana, our hostess, said she was trying to make all the traditional foods. We began dinner in the traditional Jewish way, with a blessing over the bread, a beautifully shaped round whole grain loaf. Each person gets a piece and has to take at least one bite to complete the ritual. I was really hungry after an inadequate lunch on the airplane and ate the entire slice. The first two courses, served to us at the table,  were a simple, but tasty, onion soup and a green salad with grape tomatoes. After that we were asked to serve ourselves, buffet style.

We had a vegetarian turkey purchased from a wonderful vegetarian Chinese restaurant in Teaneck: Veggie Heaven. This is one of my all-time favorite places. I don’t know how they do it, but they have chicken, shrimp, lobster and beef all made of tofu or wheat gluten. The amazing thing is that all these things taste the way they are supposed to. I’m sure they are not substituting the real thing: they are certified kosher and have rabbinical inspection of their kitchen.

The turkey looked more like a chicken, but in any case, it looked and tasted like a bird. It was stuffed with some kind of rice blend. Ilana made cranberry sauce, which, along with the salad and the pumpkin pie, were the most traditional items. She made cornbread out of blue corn flour; a tofu and vegetable pie that looked almost like a pizza; pumpkin ravioli that I guess are also traditional, but not in my family; a casserole, or kugel, of pureed squash; steamed, sliced carrots and white potatoes; and, I think, a kind of rice pilaf, or maybe that was the stuffing from the turkey.

Dessert was a choice of grapes, a mix of raspberries and blueberries, and the pumpkin pie with whipped cream. Pumpkin pie is one of the few foods (desserts) I can leave alone. I am grateful there is at least one. My mother never made it; I think she didn’t like pumpkin. She always made wonderful lemon meringue pies for Thanksgiving dessert. I like pumpkin muffins, pumpkin soup, pumpkin bread, soda or yeast. Robin makes a fabulous pumpkin challah. Thinking about it I guess I don’t like the texture of pumpkin pie.

I tried very hard not to overeat, but I did taste everything. I love trying new food. We finished our dinner with prayers thanking God for the blessings of the meal, also traditional. Later there was tea or coffee in the living room with biscotti we brought from Enrico’s in Pittsburgh.

At the end of the evening, Ron, our host, drove another guest and me, into New York. My final treat came as we crossed the George Washington Bridge and it was completely lit up and beautiful, as I originally saw it from my apartment in Fort Lee. I could even see it reflected in the river after we had crossed. They were repainting it during the last few years I lived in Fort Lee, and the lights were out, so this was very special for me.

Thank you

Thank you EasyDiverChris for the nice mention on Time Goes By. And thanks to all of my friends and family who keep in touch with me as I travel. I love seeing all the wonderful things here in Japan, but the most interesting part of the trip is coping with a different culture and a language that is almost impenetrable to me. I’ll be posting back here in the middle of November. Right now I’m busy at Japan on My Mind.

Amazing experience

Last night we went to a book signing. What’s the big deal, you say. First, it is a very special book, written by Karen Williams and Khadra Mohammed. Read more about it here. Karen and Khadra are both very special women. Khadra runs the Pittsburgh Refugee Center. Karen is a writer who does no end of incredible things; read about her here. Book_signing_1_2
This is Karen reading to the children who came
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The older children were reading to
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themselves.

But the astonishing thing about the event was the place where it was held.

About six blocks from where I live is a huge old warehouse. It looks almost deserted. Casablance Gallery has a mural painted on the truck entrance door to the building, and someone who repairs musical instruments, or teaches music, has something painted on another door. Neither place ever seems to be open, and the neighborhood appears to be iffy, at best. We walked down the street uncertain about whether we were in the right place. Steve spotted some balloons in front of an open door. Stepping inside was like walking into another world–a magical world.

Everything was clean and shiny, beautiful color on the walls, wonderful decorations to look at as you walked up the stairs. Book_signing_5
The huge loft space was organized by conversation groupings–sofas, chairs and decorative items inviting you to sit and be comfortable, but also be excited and examine all of the interesting objects decorating the group. None of these pictures Book_signing_6
does justice to what I saw. I wanted to live there, at least in a small part of the space. When it was time to leave I felt like we were breaking the spell; going back to the real world.

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It’s been a quiet week…

As I get older I find myself noticing the world around me in ways I had not done before. My backyard remains constantly fascinating as I note how the light changes as the sun changes position. This caught my eye the other morning, with the sun lighting the tree from an entirely different angle.
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On Saturday, LInda and I went to the Mattress Factory. Their current exhibits left us somewhat mystified, but we enjoyed the Tom Museum and spent a fair amount of time in the exhibit by Yayoi Kusama. Although I don’t particularly enjoy looking at myself in a mirror, I find these images continually fascinating.
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It’s easier looking at myself upside down.

I love the way the space opens out to infinity. That’s the best part about mirrors.
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I’ve been diligent about walking in Frick Park, every morning since Friday. I think it’s the best exercise I can get, and the park is beautiful, truly one of the jewels of Pittsburgh. Library_1640_2
This morning was very foggy, and I was able to get more of those rays of sun shots.  Library_1642_2










We noticed a lot of these white flowers. I don’t knowwhat they are. Library_1637_2
Perhaps some day I will be able to Google an object instead of a word or description. That would be really amazing!Library_1639_2


Back to the routine

While I was in New York I realized I don’t like being in Pittsburgh unless my family is here. It’s not about Pittsburgh. I just haven’t made many attachments here, although Mary picked me up from the airport bus, so that’s one attachment I’ve made. I returned on Monday; Robin, Steve and Charna didn’t get back until Tuesday afternoon. They had a wonderful time in Chile. Charna said she wanted to chain herself to a palm tree and stay there.

School began yesterday morning with Art of China, the class I am auditing. Next week my Osher classes begin. I’m continuing with Tai Chi and taking another writing class and something called Caravaggio (about the artist).

My biggest problem on returning was retrieving my mail. I always ask the post office to hold it if I will be gone more than a few days. Usually that works well and they deliver it on the requested date. This time the system, if there is one, failed. My regular carrier is on vacation, obviously the cause of the failure. I finally went and picked it up, after some difficulty finding where to go. It wasn’t the nearest post office.

This morning I was back to walking, this time with Mary, Mary’s sister Nancy, and Phyllis. The position of the sunlight was different,  and I got some neat photos.
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Phyllis and Nancy

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Mary stops to talk to every dog we meet.

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Day Twelve: Shirley Sun, again

I couldn’t fall asleep last night, or I should say, this morning. I was reading until 12:30, my eyes were tired but the brain kept going. At 1:30 am, I got out of bed, went to the computer, and paid a couple of bills I had been trying to forget about: out of sight, out of mind. I don’t know when I finally fell asleep, but I had a hard time getting started this morning.

Shirley Sun was waiting for me under the gaze of Confucius, and we went to 27 Seafood, down the street. We had a fairly good conversation this time, better than last week. She told me about her business, showed me some of the advertising she sold, and spent a lot of time talking about different kinds of tea. I wish I could spend more time with her and help her improve her English.

My second stop was the Japan Tourist Bureau to buy my Japan Railpass. I now have all of my frequent flier miles and $525 invested in my upcoming trip. I still don’t know where I will be staying, and I’m becoming uncomfortable about it.

After all that I came back to the apartment. My lack of sleep is catching up with me, so I will beg off going out to dinner tonight.

Rainy, gray eleventh day

I came prepared for very hot weather here and have been delighted by the cool, pleasant days. This day is the exception; it’s raining and in the fifties. I can’t really complain. When I left the apartment before 8, with Renee’s raincoat, it was really not unpleasant walking in the rain. This was the only way I was going to see Rose– meet her for breakfast. I came back to the apartment, afterward, and tried to motivate myself to go out again before my dinner date.

After a lunch of the left-overs from the previous night’s dinner, more multigrain salad and pear and endive salad from Columbus, I went back to the Met, along with every tourist in the city. What a madhouse! Seeking less crowded spaces, I went to one of the temporary exhibitions I overlooked in previous visits: Neo Rauch. I don’t know what to say about this one; undoubtedly some of the most confusing art I’ve ever seen. Rauch is from the former East Germany, and his paintings contain associations that are completely mysterious to me.

Also sparsely populated, the Indian, Chinese and Korean  galleries kept me busy for another hour or so. My legs won’t tolerate more than a couple hours of museum viewing at any one time. Finally I got back on the crosstown bus and went over to 86th and Broadway in pursuit of Harry’s Shoes. Not my favorite place but buying shoes when my feet hurt is my favorite activity.

I want to remember not to return to Harry’s Shoes, ever. This is without doubt a place where I was most invisible. I had a hard time getting someone to wait on me; they all looked through me. Finally I tried on two pairs of shoes. I might have bought one of them, but my salesman disappeared, so I just walked out. I’m sure he thought I was a terrible old lady; I thought he was a terrible salesman. Harry, I hope you read this.

I met Ilana at 116th and Broadway, the main entrance to Columbia. She is working on a PhD at JTS, next to Columbia. She showed me around JTS and Union Theological Seminary, and then we went to dinner at an Ethiopian restaurant. Lovely day, in spite of the rain.

Tenth day and holding

I’m still seeing friends and going to museums, but I took time out for an important appointment. Since this is my second year in Pittsburgh I decided I ought to have all of my health needs met in Pittsburgh. Giving up most of my New Jersey doctors was easy; I’d been doing that every other year, anyway. But my eyes were another matter, since they are the most important part of my body and the most problematic.

My New York eye doctor gave me a good recommendation in Pittsburgh; I’m very satisfied. The only person I hadn’t transitioned (love that word) was my contact lens practitioner. I love the doctor I’ve been seeing here in New York. She has spent many hours getting the lenses just right. But, I decided I ought to have someone in Pittsburgh, so I got a recommendation, went to the appointment and left with my gut feeling  that I should go back to New York. This all occurred in May; I made the New York appointment almost immediately after, and this was the day. I’m still happy with her and it’s a wonderful excuse to get back to New York at least once a year.

I met Laura for lunch after the appointment. We followed our long lunch with a visit to the natural history museum to see an exhibit about mythical animals. It was a great exhibit with a lot of interesting art, particularly from China and Japan. Although they gave wonderful explanations for how some of these creatures came to inhabit our imaginations, I sometimes wonder if, at least some of them might have really existed, and we just haven’t yet found any trace of them.

My Asian art class looked at a picture of a unicorn  created around 5000 years ago. Although very tiny, it was wonderfully detailed and comparable to an equally detailed picture of a rhinoceros. Why do we presume one is real and the other mythical?

I feel that way about dragons, also. They are so pervasive in Asian culture; why couldn’t they have been real at one time. Shirley Sun said the dragon was a creature of the mind. Unlike some of the discussions we have, there was nothing ambiguous about her statement. Too bad!


Sunday, Ninth Day

Nice cool, overcast day; didn’t start raining until I got back to the apartment. I met Peg on the steps of the Public Library, after taking someone’s picture in front of one of the lions. Tourists really love those lions. We walked over to Lexington Avenue to a street fair. I used to go to these street fairs often when I lived here, but after a while, they all seemed to have the same vendors. That’s still true. This one seemed to have even less variety. There were several places offering back massages, many vendors of "pashmina" scarves for $5, jewelry for $2, food, rugs, lots of handbags. The only new interesting things, jackets, coats and scarves of cashmere, hand embroidered in Kashmir, India. These were beautiful, for very high prices, cashmere or not. The only certain thing was the sweatshop labor that undoubtedly went into them.

The commercial Mozzarepa vendors were missing. I guess its time has come and gone. We finally found one stand that was selling what was probably a more authentic, but not as delicious version. We bought one, and split it. I guess my street fair days are finished. The Mozzarepa was always my big motivator.

The fair ended at 57th Street, and we walked over toward Central Park and people-watched from a bench across from the Plaza. Mostly we talked. I guess that’s what I’ve been doing since I got here–just catching up with old friends.

Lovely Eighth Day

Beautiful day, today. The rain last night washed the air, the sun shone, the air was cool. I walked up (literally, it’s a hill) 96th Street to the Gourmet Garage. Heard lots of their ads on NPR over the years and always wanted to see if they were better than most of the New York food purveyors. Some time, when I have nothing else to write about, I’ll do a post about New York grocery stores. Anyhow, I probably won’t walk up the hill again.

I stopped there on my way to meet Howard and Sybille at the Museum of the City of New York. Sybille is one of only a few friends from my working days. We spent four hours there, looking at exhibits, catching up, discussing the exhibits, talking. I wouldn’t have believed I could spend so much time there.

One of my favorite things is the Stettheimer dollhouse. Stettheimer was an artist, with pictures at the Met, who ran a salon for artists in New York City. Some of the artwork in the dollhouse was created by artists who came to her salon. How romantic is that.

We spent most of our time in an exhibit about the Forward, a Yiddish newspaper begun in 1897 in New York. Filled with photographs, posters and blown up copies of articles, the exhibit details how the paper shaped the lives of Eastern European Jewish Immigrants and helped them become integrated into American society. The story was new to Sybille, and I was able to do some translating and add a little bit to the story.

We walked back toward the apartment afterward, and had dinner at Renee’s favorite Italian restaurant, Delizia. Sybille and I had a lovely risotto with pieces of steak and some nuts. Howard had chicken with mushrooms, looked almost like a Marsala. Very good, solid Italian; no "pink sauce."

Sybille and I never run out of things to talk about. We had lunch together almost every day while I was working. Never ran out of conversation then, either.